2009年6月2日 星期二

Three Step To Grow Your Hapiness

First Step:
Plant yourself deep in a bed of faith, and pack it down solid and tight. Drench daily with positive thinking and keep saturated just right. Mulch often with forgiveness, for this will help you grow. Quickly remove any seeds of worry, for they will soon germinate and keep out the weeds of despair. Nourish disappointments with hope whenever it is needed and always stay cool and shaded when you feel irritated or heated. Trim away guilt or depression, for they create decay and cultivate with happy memories as often as very day.

Second Step:
Harvest the lessons of the past; just dig, pick and hoe. And nurture the roots of the present, for now is when you flourish and grow. Start planting for the future; set your goals in a row. Spade the bed well for all your dreams to grow.

Third Step:
Remember that grief is a natural predator, so learn to tolerate some damage. Protect your garden with daily prayers, for this will help you manage. Bury the criticism and complaining, for they are injurious pests. Sow the seed of love wherever you may go – for joy, love and laughter are surely bound to grow. Although the thorns of life may be here to stay, just sprout a smile along the way … and be thankful for what you have today!

2009年6月1日 星期一

亲情是彼此互相扶持


亲爱的姨姨:

妈妈常说,小姨如二十四孝的黄香,侍奉婆婆用心体贴,为了让婆婆安心睡眠,睡前会帮婆婆涂油擦背,天寒时会为婆婆温暖被窝,实在值得我们学习。
另一方面,阿姨们也要认清婆婆的苦处和弱点。她老人家永远对子女放心不下,尽管我们已成年,事业有成,她还是盼望看到我们,想听到我们的声音,得到我们几句安慰的话。婆婆的心是脆弱的,是牵肠挂肚的,所以我们要常去探望她。
亲情是建立在彼此互相扶持,温暖和鼓励上,最后大家都得到启发,成长和创造的能力。随着年龄的增加,在精神生活上有了更开阔的视野。祝:安康

2009年5月31日 星期日

Did You Made A Wrong Choice?

Dear Yi Jun,

Have you ever, at any one time, had the feeling that life there is bad quality, real bad, and you wish you were in another situation? You find life make things difficult for you, study sucks, life sucks and everything seems to go wrong …

Watch the following link story … it may change your views about life:

Films: Chicken a la Carte by Fredinad Dimdura

Taken a back by the scene, the bread and chicken people was eating halfway. And almost instantly, a flock of 5 or 6 children swamped towards this food which was covered with dirt, robbing bits from dustbin – the natural reaction of hunger.

We began to tell ourselves how fortunate we are. How fortunate we are to be able to have a complete body, have chance to study oversea, have a family, have the chance to complain what food is nice and what isn’t nice, have the chance to be clothed, have the many things that these people in front of him are deprived of …

Now you begin to think and feel it, too! How? Were you life really that bad? Perhaps --- No, You should not feel bad at all … . Maybe the next time you think you are, think about the child who search the food from dustbin. “Contentment is not the fulfillment of what you want; it is the realization of how much you already have.”

When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don’t see the one which has been opened for us. It’s true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lost it, but it’s also true that we don’t know what we have been missing until it arrives.